About The Book


Ecstasy is the human reset button. It shakes you up, reboots your system, and opens your eyes to a whole new world of possibilities. Ecstasy introduces you to your deepest, most authentic self, while simultaneously offering freedom, intimacy, connection, and spiritual awakening.

In my new book we’ll dive deep into the world of ecstatic experience, beginning with the medium through which most people experience ecstasy—sex. However, this is much more than your typical sex book; it is an exploration of the entire erotic self and the infinite possibilities of ecstatic expression.

Everyone’s sexual evolution is personal and unique and there are countless erotic and ecstatic possibilities available at all points along the way. The insights you will gain on your journey with me will help you approach sex and relationships with confidence and in a way that works for you, no matter where you are on your personal erotic path. You’ll put together a toolkit for solving the inevitable challenges that arise along the way.  And you’ll learn that it’s possible to create ecstatic experiences even when sex is not possible, available, or appropriate.

Using stories and simple exercises, I’ll help you discover your deepest values, needs, and desires as well as how to effectively communicate this information to others so that you can be loved more easily and effectively. You’ll learn what you need to feel safe, how to set appropriate boundaries, how to build up your sexual courage, and how to take appropriate risks. Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide to Sex, Relationships and Oh So Much More gives you the permission and the possibilities to go where you haven’t gone before.  It’s a practical guide to living a truly ecstatic life.